Protects oneself is person's instinct, the human in meets the danger the time can the instinct protect itself, but regarding the child, in his eye,（Related Articlesvintage kids clothing jinnian qian 5 ge yue, Vietn）, is that simple happy, if the child has not realized the latent danger, the attempt unavoidably will receive the injury from now on, heavy will also breed the catastrophe.
Yesterday listened to child grandmother saying that had to brings in the Guangdong hiring out for working husbands' and wives' family in little girl in the side,kids clothes, because was negligent in teaches, after causing the girl to take by over 60 year-old men the candy tempted indecent, the girl many times when reflected the lower part of the body ache with the guardian, the guardian has not brought to the attention, afterward was a slightly big spot 12 year-old elder sister told this matter the father, finally the father had only then known the daughter received the violation the entirety.
However, is good in three girls is the genitals surface has the attrition, inside obstructs not greatly, but after such matter occurs, thought-provoking.
Therefore, reporter has made an investigation in the kindergarten, discovered that in the class has the overwhelming majority child not to know which own body do have is the privacy spot,kids clothing, i.e., if some people move their body, they regarding this will not make the response, such survey result will make without doubt the person anxiety.
Therefore, I think of my child. Casually asked his, on your body which places can't let the human look?
The child hears me to ask him like this, mischievous has traced own neck with the hand, I have smiled, this neck clothes cannot cover continually, will not have let the human see? I also explained that which places was on your body is must block from, could not reveal casually.
The child has understood my real meaning probably, also smiled has been patting the buttocks with the hand, traces the chest, but also had the lower part of the body.
Ha-ha, how looks like my child not to need mother to worry that already knew oneself protected itself.
This also no wonder, usually he when the outside urgency of urination, must look for nobody's place, the face toward, the buttocks solves to outside, originally the child already had heart of the sense of honor.
However, speaks of this child's self-safekeeping of security, was actually very early I to instill into many consciousness to the child. For instance, in the family which things are cannot bump, which matters are do not take advantage adult not at time does? After the child has known, will not pay attention to him, will not be thinking will attempt.
But some children are curiosity, you jump over the matter which does not let him do, he more is must take advantage you do not pay attention time incites, such child lives is not rare, if is this, would rather the guardian grasps the discretion, lets the child experience one.
May look for some to be similar brings in the safekeeping of security education disc to the child looked that lets the child have in one kind of visual feeling first, forms one preliminary impression, takes the entity thing demonstration like this again when looked to him, he will know the fear. For instance, some children like uncovering thermos bottle's lid, thinks that amusingly, at this time might as well spreads out his microcheiria, places on the bottle mouth to rock, the inside steam child should be able to feel, only then he thought that some scald one's hands, will again not have attempted next time. Like this after our family child is let him experience the boiling water temperature, regardless of henceforth that thermos bottle does have the attire boiling water, he will not go to bump it.
Certainly also some safer method, is family's in thermos bottle, thermos bottle anything places as far as possible the place which the child cannot reach, like this may avoid the child touching at will.
Also has some pill anything to avoid letting the child bring secretly swallows, because some pills are sweet, the child does not take it to work as the medicine, thought must eat. At this time, the guardian wants to do manages well oneself family's medicine kit, lays aside as far as possible in the child does not look, cannot reach place, in order to avoid has the danger.
The family safekeeping of security may avoid generally, because the scope is quite narrow, is also very limited, should note can note, as soon as but the child goes out the room, the one who contacts is the person of all forms, meets is also the every large or small matter, at this time, leaves the child who the parents embrace, if wants to let them continue all is well, grows safely, the guardian must borrow the child a pair of mental perception, in which situations lets the child know is unsafe, which matters can't go to do?
The child somewhat is generally gluttonous, wants to play all the time, this is child's instinct. If takes the candy to tempt the child, the child does not have preparation, will be swindled.
Therefore, safekeeping of security's first is, do not eat stranger's thing, once has eaten stranger's thing, will also be told by opposite party crown your father to coerce your words, in the child innermost feelings will have the dread, will be walking with the stranger.
Then second is,cute girls clothes, do not walk with the stranger. No matter is the understanding did not know that so long as does not have father and mother in the side, certainly cannot walk with him. If is pulled by the stranger is walking, must teach the child academic society to shout saves a life, the prompt seek help, is separated from the dangerous situation as soon as possible.
The third article, cannot let anybody move own body, includes own chest, the buttocks, the lower part of the body. On child body all privacy spot, also cannot expose to the human saw that also cannot let anybody move, must let the child understand since childhood protects own body, particularly girl.
The above these are several which I summarize, hopes the guardian who carries on the self-safekeeping of security consciousness raise to the child not to have some inspirations to these, like this does not waste me to write this attainment.
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